I'm a lesbian and I think I have oral herpes, can I still have oral sex?

Ok, I am aware that most of the population has oral herpes and I think I do to. So my question is, can I still give oral to another woman or would that lead to her getting genital herpes? Even if there was no sore present? Also, I've been hearing about using dental dams as protection besides on online, is there another place to buy them?

I'm a lesbian and I think I have oral herpes, can I still have oral sex?
They are hard to find....try drug stores (CVS in my town has them, but not Eckerds) you might have to look around - they don't stock items that don't sell before they expire %26amp; they're not a big seller!





But when you have a cold sore - don't go down on someone - or kiss them - you'll keep them safe that way
Reply:Sure you can, If you want them to get herpes too.
Reply:if u have cold sores then u have oral herpes. they are contagious so yes u can give them to another person. just don't give oral when the cold sore is there. there is less of a risk to pass it on when there is no sore but there is still a small risk. u can try adult sex shops (if your old enough) and if there is one in your area. if not u may have to buy on line.
Reply:You can still give them the herpes virus if you have oral herpes. It's best to use a dental dam and you should avoid going down on her when you have an outbreak with or without a dental dam. You can always go to the doctor and have him prescribe Valtrex. It's supposed to supress both the herpes simplex 1 and 2 virus.
Reply:yes you can give her genital herpes.