Doesn't STDs....condoms.. dental dams.. ruin the fun out of sex?

i mean why does almost everything we do have some sort of way to get sick or die from? seriosuly you cna die from coconuts. you cna die from sex. you can get sick from sex.... protection protection protection well i don;t want to get sick why does it have to be sex. i mean you can;t perform oral and be friggin safe from STD's unless you use a dental damn. and sex with a condom sucks -.-"


it doesn;t feel great and it taste nasty with the condom but i mean....don;t you agree you have to be so careful to one of lifes most extroadinary pleasures?i want to be careful too but sometimes i wish... screw the condom.. lets have sex with the pill its gonna feel good. oral.. without.. the rubber.. lahblabha ya know?

Doesn't STDs....condoms.. dental dams.. ruin the fun out of sex?
At first it can seem like it's ruining the fun, but the more you do it the more natural it becomes. Get the thinnest condoms you can find, but don't use lambskin ones, as they're porus. If you watch porn at all, make sure it's safer sex porn (the actors all wear condoms)...that might help make it seem more normal to you, also. You can also use saran wrap in place of a dental dam, it's a bit thinner, but make sure it's not the microwaveable kind, as that kind has tiny holes in it. Use flavored condoms or lube if you're giving oral sex (don't have them used on you, though, as the sugars in flavored lubes and condoms can give you a yeast infection). If you have a regular partner, get tested now, continue using condoms for the next 6 months, and then get tested again. If you're both negative at that point, go without condoms if you'd like. If you don't have a regular partner, it's better to use protection every time. The more you do it, the more normal it will feel. If you want to be able to give oral sex without a condom, stay away from the head of the penis. Just focus on the base and the testicles, that way no fluid gets into your mouth. Don't give up safe sex yet, you're too young to pay the price for the rest of your life.
Reply:I honestly hope you are just kidding Report It

Reply:i have never had sex but i think being safe is more important than taking the fun out of something dont you think?


jessica
Reply:stds ruin sex a lot more than condoms do
Reply:i get what you're saying.but there is no way.i can have sex without a condom.i mght want to .because it feels better.but i don't want to die just yet.so what ever u do and how u do it.be careful.
Reply:If you think that they ruin the fun yhink it in the otherway that the fun U are talking about it can lead on to Aids and the whole family is ruined.
Reply:I cant believe how ignorant you are being. I dont even think that people explaining this to you would make a difference your so ignorant.
Reply:Yes they ruin it.... but so does herpes, aids, and all other std's. I know condoms make a girl feel dirty and its not the same. But getting herpes for the rewst of your life make one feel even more dirty....... Always inspect your partner first, no sores pimples ect down there. I hate to see pretty girls with those big cold sore HERPES on their mouth
Reply:you ever see anyone dying of aids or blind and crippled for lifr from stphillys sex is fun but std can be dangerous russian roulette with your penis when your dead ========= then the judgement so better be careful and safe not sorry
Reply:Change your attitude. I had a partner once who said to me that he never used condoms for sex. I refused to have intercourse with him for this reason! I use condoms 100% of the time with my partners. I can't even imagine having intercourse without protection. I would be so anxious during the act that I wouldn't enjoy it.





So I'm the other way - Not using condoms takes the fun out of sex!
Reply:I would think that getting AIDS takes the fun out of life.
Reply:there is a balance one must walk in life. i can pleasure a woman without giving her a disease even if i am extremely contagious. just keep an open mind. pleasure is so tasty when unexpected.

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